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How can I leave a reference for someone?

Last updated on May 10, 2025

Click here for tips on how to write a reference.

After hosting or staying with someone

  1. Click "Messages".

  2. Click "hosting" or "surfing" (depending on which type of reference you are leaving).

  3. Click on the request you want to leave a reference for.

  4. Click the "Write reference" button.

A friend

  1. Make sure you are friends with the other user on the platform (you have sent or received a friend request which was also accepted).

  2. On your friend’s profile, click on "References".

  3. Click on "Write Reference".

An acquaintance or person you aren't friends with yet

  1. Currently you cannot leave a reference for someone you are not friends with. However, no matter what the situation is, you can always report the person by clicking the flag symbol on their profile, or you can email safety@couchers.org .